Life offers us a choice of environments, each reflecting where we are in our journey and how willing we are to embrace change. Whether we remain in the safety of a small, contained space or venture into vast, unpredictable territory, the environment we choose shapes our growth, decisions, and experiences.
This concept can be likened to water in its many forms—a glass, a river, or the sea. Each represents a stage of comfort, risk, and discovery. While some find peace in the stillness of a glass of water, others thrive in the dynamic currents of a river or the boundless potential of the sea. These environments are not just metaphors but reflections of our mindset, the people we surround ourselves with, and the purpose driving us forward.
Let me share something with you—if you’re feeling stuck in life, broke, or far from achieving what you want, remember this: you’ve been here before. You’ve already experienced tough times and found a way to handle them. Trying something new or pushing yourself beyond your limits won’t break you; it will only make you stronger. The worst-case scenario? You end up back where you started—but as you’ve proven before, you can handle it. It’s not the end of the world.
What’s far more painful is never trying. Yes, the fear of failure looms large—”What if I try and fail?” But let me ask you this: what if you fail and, in doing so, gain valuable lessons that make you better, wiser, and more prepared for future opportunities? Growth often comes from failure, not avoidance. And every attempt you make brings you closer to the life you desire.
As you read, consider where you are now and where you aspire to be. Are you ready to stay where it’s safe, or will you take a leap into deeper waters? The choice is yours, and with it comes the opportunity to shape the life you truly want.
A Glass of Water
Imagine a glass of water—a small, contained surface. In this environment, everything feels safe and manageable. People here are deeply attached to their comfort zones. They find solace in routine and predictability, avoiding risks at all costs. While this space offers security, it often breeds stagnation. Fear of the unknown keeps them anchored in one place, unable to explore the possibilities beyond their immediate surroundings.
A River
Now, picture a river—larger than the glass, with a gentle current that flows steadily. You know the terrain; life here is somewhat predictable. There’s a sense of ease, but also a quiet challenge. In this environment, your comfort zone expands, allowing for calculated risks. You take a step forward occasionally, but only after weighing the odds. Opportunities pass by like floating leaves on the river’s surface, and while you may grab a few, many drift away. Life in the river is comfortable yet restrained, offering growth that is gradual and measured.
The Sea
Finally, there’s the sea—a vast, expansive, and ever-changing force. The waves rise and fall unpredictably, mirroring the ebb and flow of life itself. The sea is deep, mysterious, and often turbulent, presenting challenges that demand resilience, adaptability, and the right tools to navigate. Here, survival requires courage, strategy, and an openness to transformation. But it is also where the greatest growth and discovery occur, where dreams are realized, and potential is truly unlocked.
Your Choice of Environment
The environment you choose—or find yourself in—depends on various factors:
- Your Circumstances: The stage of life you’re in, the resources you have, and the challenges you face.
- Your Influence: The power you hold, the opportunities available to you, and how much control you have over your surroundings.
- Your Circle: The people you surround yourself with—their energy, mindsets, and ambitions—shape your perspective and choices.
- Your Purpose: Your goals, aspirations, and the vision you hold for your life act as a compass, guiding you toward the environment that aligns with your growth.
Each stage—the glass, the river, or the sea—offers valuable lessons. Whether you are seeking security, measured growth, or boundless adventure, your environment reflects your mindset and readiness to embrace life’s opportunities and challenges.